Friday, August 05, 2005
DAMN U FYP!!
kaoz very sianz lehz!! FYP SUX!! damn... can't really draw well with only ruler.. really wish i had my set squares with me... a t square is useless without set squares.. nevertheless i still have to do it.. sianz...a very happening day or shld i say night.. man... dramatic.. shan't elaborate...The fundamentals of love.
Think back to the day when you first laid eyes on her.
You found yourself charmed by the way she talks
the way she dresses herself to show off her
best features and the way she embraces life with her laughter.
It seemed as if a mysterious "chemistry effect" has suddenly
developed to draw you closer to her
You two then began to meet regularly
and you discover more things that youadmire about her
Her clever ideas, her healthy values and the way she stands up for you when others doubt you You find yourself thinking of her not just as a normal friend, but a very good friend
It is often during this period that a boy and a gal will start thinking of
bringing their friendship to another level
After all, the kind of wonderful experience you have between each other can only
become even better if it develops into a romantic relationship
In other words..
the feeling is really unique - no one else seems able to replace her in yourheart
So both of you agree to go steady and work even harder on the relationship
You "graduate" to become a couple and are the envy of the sea of singles
When You Forget The Fundamentals
However, at some point in your relationship
you forgot how it all began You start to take your partner for granted
Why can't she laugh in a more..ladylike manner?
Why doesn't she dress herself more trendily?
Why must she assert her views and point out your silly mistakes?
Is she really the one for you?
To be fair to yourself and to her, take some time to reflect on your "love memory"
The "love memory' contains all the reasons that you fell inlove with her right from Day One
It contains rarely accessed snippets of how your life has changed since meeting and loving her.Pre-steady days, did you heap compliments on her for the brave way shespoke her mind on bullies and snobs? You probably did. Did you like her unusual fashion sense that makes her stand out from the crowd?Right-o
So why are you criticising or finding fault with her now that she is your girlfriend?
Because you have forgotten the fundamentals of love
like so many of us u have forgotten the reasons you admired her during the friendship phase
Instead, once you went steady, you put your "love memory" in cold storage
As her boyfriend, you take up a new set of demands and expectations abouther
These new ideas are not necessarily better
they could put your relationship at risk
FACTS? BELIEFS? LIES? DREAMZ? THE AUTHOR IS SEXIST!!!applies to every1 ba regardless of sexdarn...gers wans guys to change?why the hell they like him in the 1st place?lol amusingspoke with ger today..man.. sad sia..WEI... readers... don't be sad lorz... can't tag la.. give ur my authorgraph next time when i see ya okie?? lol im lazy la.. change the board very sianz worz...
love is dead at [4:34 AM]
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